Conversely, Willow turned "gay" despite a strong involvement with Oz and attraction to Xander, and Vamp!Willow's pansexuality. That bugged a lot of people, though I saw someone say that was a pattern followed by some real gay people.
I can buy the gay governor; to me these things are about who you're attracted to, not who you sleep with. Faking your way through a marriage of camouflage doesn't make you bi, any more than "there are no females" buttsex makes prisoners gay or all that bi. Less, maybe, since there's more (social) coercion in the former case.
Found this: http://www.washblade.com/2006/10-6/news/national/bi.cfm
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Conversely, Willow turned "gay" despite a strong involvement with Oz and attraction to Xander, and Vamp!Willow's pansexuality. That bugged a lot of people, though I saw someone say that was a pattern followed by some real gay people.
I can buy the gay governor; to me these things are about who you're attracted to, not who you sleep with. Faking your way through a marriage of camouflage doesn't make you bi, any more than "there are no females" buttsex makes prisoners gay or all that bi. Less, maybe, since there's more (social) coercion in the former case.
Found this:
http://www.washblade.com/2006/10-6/news/national/bi.cfm