Rich and Strange Aeons

Interesting. Of course, these are self-reported so it should clear a few things up, but I wonder about how we categorize folks. It seems that if a man sleeps with a man, no matter how many women he has slept with, society calls him gay, whereas if a woman sleeps with a woman and ever sleeps with men, then she is not lesbian but bi. Take for example the New Jersey governor who came out as "gay". I have a hard time believing it. I mean, perhaps his 20-yr marriage was a complete sham, but he did have two kids. Did it ever cross anyone's mind to label him "bi"? No one ever comes out as "bi", it's just not done, and I'm waiting until someone has the chutzpah to do just that.